Since I passed the age of fifty, I kind of lost interest in celebrating my birthday. To me it seemed more of a reminder of my approaching decrepitness. “TickTock, you’re getting old, Asbell” I would think to myself. However recent events have significantly altered my view. Now, and I think for the rest of my life, each birthday will give me the pleasure of giving the “middle finger” to cancer. From now on, my birthday is a victory celebration, a true celebration of life…..over death.
This weekend was my 68th birthday. I’m no longer sensitive about being an “old man,” I’m proud of it! Although Lee often reminds that no matter how old I really am, I have the mentality of a 10-year old boy. I take that as a compliment.
We had big plans for this bash. First was a Duck victory. The Ducks were playing Washinton State, not a good football team. Kickoff was at 3:00 pm, our celebration party was to begin at 5:00 pm. Surely the score would be something like 30 to 10 in the Ducks favor by halftime, putting me and everyone else in a jolly mood. But there was much to do to get our home appropriately “ducked out.”
Over 50 friends and family descended on our home to celebrate my birthday and a Duck victory. The wonderful fall Sonoran Desert weather invited celebrators onto the patio overlong the desert and Santa Rita mountains. Alas, the Ducks lost in double overtime. 😖. Fortunately there was plenty of tasty tidbits and mountains of wine to soothe the wounds. Although I must show moderation in imbibing, no such restrictions applied to our guests.
Despite the Duck disappointment, Lee and I had a fabulous time and thank everyone who were able to join us to celebrate my birthday and my life. Your love and support breeds strength and I am so grateful and blessed to have so much support. Thank you all.
So glad to see you were able to ease the pain, “sonny.” (With my 71st just 11 days away, I can safely say that. LOL. Can’t laugh too loud, however. Might pull something!) Love the mega bottles. Wish we could have been there with you.
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I’m glad you had a fabulous birthday celebration with family and friends! Happy 68th!
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Did I read something about the bakery refused to make the cake because they were OSU Grads and considered the caption obscene?
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Happy B-Day Big Jim…! An awesome day for an AWESOME guy… Cheers!
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Happy Birthday Jim Boy. You’re still the Best!
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It was wonderful to be able to celebrate with you but you and Lee are in our thoughts everyday.
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Wishing you many, many more birthdays! Live it up.
We love your positive attitude toward life!
xx Don & Janie
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looks like it was a marvelous day. would love to have been there too. looking forward to a January trip to the desert. big hi to Gino and Susie.
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It was crazy a crowded affair, lots fun, but exhausting. I’m looking forward to your January visit
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Fabulous fucking post! Great pic of Lee. So glad you didn’t descend into a funk over the team’s loss; they will rise again! So glad Greg and Anne were there, too.
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An awesome celebration! So glad that we were there to celebrate with you!
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Thank you for assisting with the table and chairs!
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Dang not a drop left in that whole big bottle?!
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Nope 😀
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Happy Birthday Jim!
You are a bundle of positive energy and you brighten our day with your joy.
Tough year for the Oregon football teams so far, but better Saturday’s lie ahead.
We’ll bring your burthday present in a few weeks and toast to a couple of 1947 vintage well seasoned Orezonans. Cheers!
Buzz
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Looking forward to your return!
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Happy Birthday!!!! Looks like a wonderful one. 🙂
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Happy Birthday Jim!!
Love your cake:)
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What a wonderful celebration! Love the duck/rabbit cartoon, too.
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Happy belated birthday, Jim! You do know how to celebrate in style!
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Birthdays have more importance these days! Party!!!
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Your an inspiration to anyone, including me, in a battle with cancer. Joyce and I wish you the very best.
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Thank you. How’s the property holding up during the storm?
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